Looking for easy, flexible ways to plan your summer days with young children? In Loose Schedules That Actually Work, Valerie Geschwind of The Tiny Mess Club shares simple, practical tips for creating a rhythm that keeps little ones happy without over-scheduling. Whether you're searching for things to do with kids in Westchester County or just want ideas for a summer that balances adventure and downtime, this guide will help you make the most of your family’s days! Don't forget to snag the kid-friendly printable schedule!
Summer is supposed to feel free—but if you’re home with kids all day, “freedom” can quickly turn into chaos. With no school bells to anchor the day, many families find themselves swinging between overstimulation and boredom. That’s where a loose summer schedule can help.
We’re not talking about color-coded half-hour blocks or unrealistic Pinterest routines. This is about rhythm. Predictable touchpoints that help children feel safe, calm, and capable—while still leaving plenty of room for sunshine, spontaneity, and slow mornings in pajamas.
Why Rhythm Matters
Young children thrive on predictability. Knowing what’s coming next helps them regulate their emotions, transition more smoothly, and feel a greater sense of control.
But predictability doesn’t require rigidity. A “loose schedule” gives your days flow, not pressure. It supports your child and honors your own nervous system.
Sample Loose Summer Schedule
You don’t need to follow this to the minute. Think of it as a menu, not a mandate.
🕘 Morning (7:00–10:00)
- Wake-up & breakfast
- Outdoor time or movement
- Morning activity (art, sensory play, library trip)
🕚 Late Morning / Midday (10:00–12:00)
- Independent play or quiet activity
- Snack + lunch prep together
- Lunch
🕐 Early Afternoon (12:00–2:00)
- Nap or rest time (even for big kids: books, music, dim lights)
- Grown-up quiet time too (yes, you’re allowed)
🕒 Afternoon (2:00–4:00)
- Screen time, neighborhood walk, playdate, or free play
- Popsicles or water table outside
🕓 Evening (4:00–7:00)
- Tidy-up as a team
- Dinner prep + eat
- Bath and bedtime rhythm
Tips to Make It Work for Your Family
- Create themed days if variety helps: Messy Monday, Water Wednesday, Field Trip Friday.
- Rotate toys every few days to keep things fresh.
- Give choices within structure: “Would you like to do water play or play dough this morning?”
- Use visual supports (see printable below) for kids who benefit from seeing their day laid out.
- Attend The Tiny Mess Club weekly for a sensory activity that builds connection, skills, and leaves the set-up and clean-up to us!
- Check out the Macaroni KID calendar for events and activities happening every day.
Free Printable: My Summer Day
We’ve created a simple visual schedule template you can print and customize at home—perfect for toddlers and preschoolers.
🌞 Includes images for routines
🖍️ Blank cards for your child to color and personalize
📌 Easy to hang on the fridge or clip to a clipboard
👉 Download “My Summer Day” Printable (PDF)
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